It is obvious
26/8/2009 ·
My profuse sweating go to sleep. It is obvious how ignorant I am, can fall asleep, and sleep very fragrantly and sweetly, have not had the strange dream again. Perhaps, I should sleep attentively, the thing in the dream, had better finish in the dream.
I feel that there is a caterpillar that creeps into the nostril, itches strangely incomparably. I open eyes extremely unwillingly, have hit a loud sneeze. It is dusk, the sun went behind hiding in the rockery, there is morning glow all over the sky left. One is wiping the woman whose scarlet lip is drawing giant panda's eye shadow to stand in front of me, overlook me with a smile, has given me a start. She asks: "Why does the gentleman sleep here alone? " Her smile and all extraordinary professionalism of sound. I am busy with straightening one's clothes and sitting properly, say: "Oh, yes Why do I sleep here alone? " The woman smiles, say: "The gentleman must meet the disturbing thing, can I accompany? " I understand what does her do, say: "No, it is unnecessary, I have no money, besides, "The woman scrambles for roads: "Don't dislike me for being old, has not spent a lot of copper coins, the price depends on the quality, market economy. " I say: "I really have no money! I eat a whole day already, experience of me even pitiful than you! " The woman says angrily: "It doesn't matter, gentleman as if poor beggar spend son. If it is lonely which day you feel, please page me, guarantee to breathe out and arrive at the same time at the same time. , this is my business card. "
I take over one side to print three business cards which produce manager's title of the public relations of service company so-and-soes, one side feels laughable: This year, even prostitute has business cards. "Wait a moment! " I stop the woman wanting to leave. The woman turns round at once, look at me expectantly. I say: "You are easy to look familiar, remember, you Moth's elder sister? " The woman is reticent for a moment, say coldly: "I am not any moth, writing on the business card, my name is Chang GuiZhen. " I say: "No, you are moth's elder sister! 15 years ago, you lived on worker's road No. 23, moved later. " The woman says: "15 years! How big just I am 15 years ago, how old are you just, how could remember! " I say: "I certainly remembered, I lived in your family next door before 15 years, worker's road No. 21. We go to school, leave school together, you belong to two higher than I grade " "Shut up, you talk nonsense! " The woman upbraids one. I say: "I have not talked nonsense, I am, you ask
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Give the other side a chance of bitter cry
9/7/2009 ·
Philosophic theory 017a¤ in life
Some loyal and upright person, like, tell the truth, let people feel too big and frank often, make oneself too remarkable. But people have in which kind of position does it punish, regardless of which kind of situation too, like good word of listening to, like praising others', unwilling to hear, injure one's own. Have daring and resolution too if there must be talents, reveal one's own talent in the particular occasion, it is very necessary, but if too, not only will stab others but also will damage oneself.
Give the other side a chance of bitter cry
Britain one famous Elly, child film star of ballet, only 12 year old, unfortunate because osteocarcinoma plan the amputation. Before operation, Elly's relatives and friends, including her audience heard the news to come to look about. This says: "Don't be sad, maybe present the miracle, there are chances to stand up slowly. " That says: "You are a strong child, must hold out, we are all praying for you! " Elly says no word, smiles and thanks you to all people quietly.
She wants to see princess Diana very much, her beautiful dancing posture has got the praise of Princess Diana, praise her for her portrait " A pure white cygnet " . Passed on her hope by others, princess Diana came in the midst of pressing affairs at last. She embraces Elly into chest and says: "Good child, I know you must be very sad, cry happily, cry enough. " Elly bursts into floods of tears quickly. Since having disease, someone say, just nobody speaks these words in any sentence of comfort, Elly thinks that can show consideration for and understand her mosting is these words!
It is said Diana although origin rich house, receive any higher education, she say oneself getting stupid picture ox often, the IQ is not high. But this story lets us believe her EQ will certainly be very high, such unique talent lets her image be so charitable and gentle forever in the minds of people, having much affinity, nobody can substitute.
Have a lot of clever person in the world, will say a lot of clever words, but clever what say, it comes out to be might not be proper, might not speak gratifyingly, might not speak so as to make people deeply grateful. In fact these words are all some very simple sentences, it's a pity the simple words are not that it is spoken how everybody would know how.
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In this way
9/7/2009 ·
In this way, honest people have been driven away from the convent.
In fact, " honest people " in the story Experience the accidental,last similar example actual life either.
Dancer Duncan is women of the richest legendry in the 19th century, hospitable romantic and rebellious individual character, make her become and object to the fashionable personages of traditional marriage and traditional dance. She was purer as a child, often so candid as to make people feel embarrassed.
On Christmas Day, the school holds the celebration meeting, Mr. divides the candy, cake, saying:
"See, the children, what present does the grandpa bring for you on Christmas? "
Duncan will stand up at once, say seriously:
"There is not a grandpa on Christmas in the world at all. "
Though the teacher is very angry, push down the anger in the heart, correct oneself and say: "It is believed that the grandpa's obedient girl could get candies until Christmas. "
"I do not cherish candies. " Duncan answers.
The teacher flies into a rage, punish Duncan and sit to the floor ahead.
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There is such a story
9/7/2009 ·
There is such a story:
In the past, there was a person liking saying the honest words, he spoke everything according to the fact, so, where no matter he gets, always driven away. In this way, he becomes penniless, there is no place to stay in. Finally, he comes to a convent, counting on can be accommodated into. Cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine president see he ask, understand reason, " love the truth, and respect those persons telling the truth " consciously ,Then, leave him in the convent and settle.
There are several draught animals not serving the purpose in the convent, cultivates oneself according to a religious doctrine the president wants to sell them, but he dare, send a subordinate one who get country fair go, afraid of they sell for money of draught animal illegally possess purse. Then, he shouts this honest person leads to go to the country fair to sell two donkeys and a mule. Honest people only speak the truth and say in front of the buyer: "This broken donkey of tail is very lazy, like lying in the rare mud. One day, farm labourers wanted to drag it from the mud, put forth one's strength, dragged and broke the tail; This bald donkey is very stubborn, a step does not even want to go, they smoke it, because smoke too much, mao are bald; This mule, always and lame. " "If can do the work, why will the president sell them cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine? " The buyers left after listening to the words finally. The words spread on the country fair, no one came to buy these draught animals. Then, the honest person comes back to them in the convent again by night. Listen to honest person after telling thing that happen at the country fair, cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine president take place, catch fire, say to him: "Friend, those right people that you drive away.
Should leave you such people! Though I like the truth, however, I do not like those truth opposed with my purse! So, brother, please get away! Where you love somewhere to go! "
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The time for a moment
9/7/2009 ·
The time for a moment, several nails were all broken curved by him.
Finally, he carries the nail with the pliers, break with strength with the hammer, the nail enters windingly into the stuff spraining at long last. But he all that has been achieved has come to nothing even, because that stuff has split into two too.
The wise pick up the screw, screwdriver and hammer again, he breaks the nail gently to the plank, then pick up screwdrivers to twist, there is no fee big strength more, the screw has crept into the stuff, flawless.
And his remaining screw, original that pinch.
The wise point to two planks and smile: "Sincere advice needn't unpalatable, good medicine needn't earnestly, unpleasant but kind-hearted advice that people dwell upon with great relish, earnestly good medicine, in fact all the idiot's stupid methods. Confronting the tough with toughness has any advantage? The person saying is angry, the person that listens to gets angry, wounded and kind, so kind as to become cold and detached in the end, the friendship has been turned into hatred. I have lived so big, have a experience only, that does not propose sincere advice to anyone directly absolutely. Act as, need point out into others' mistake, I mild and indirect twists express own opinions and suggestions as screw. "
Philosophic theory 016a¤ in life
" the sincere advice needn't be unpalatable, good medicine needn't be bitter to the taste " ,In the human communication, should express one's own opinions and suggestions learning the mild and indirect twists as screw. In this way, your interpersonal relationships may be harmonious.
Sincerity is not equal to " Tell the truth "
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